I have written several blogs about Harley, the goldfish that my daughter saved from the wretched science experiment; recently, I have introduced Coby, our new beloved blue betta.
Last week, Coby was placed in a small cup while Randy cleaned out the fish bowl. Randy walked away, then went back into the kitchen to finish the job. Coby had leapt out of the cup and was flopping around on the counter and gasping! Randy sprang into action and saved the fish from certain death! WHEW!
When an employee resigns from your organization, there is always a certain level of panic. Even in a situation where the resignation is the best thing for the company, employers worry about the ramifications: Will others leave too? Is this indicative of a larger problem here? What will my clients think? How will I get this work done? Should I re-negotiate with this employee in order to retain them? The urge to spring into action and restore the employee to their position is often a first instinct of an employer, as it was when Randy found Coby on the counter.
Despite first instinct, the two situations couldn’t be more different. My advice for an employer in this predicament is this: Help that person leave well. Tell them that you truly appreciate the time that they gave to your organization, and ask what they need from you. Figure out a way to let that person make their exit on good terms so that everyone feels better. You are the boss. You set the tone.
Give your former employee the freedom to be successful and continue on their own path. You will feel better that you did.