by Beth | Jun 30, 2025 | Uncategorized
I had a client reach out to me and tell me that his business is doing well, with the exception of one department. That department had a revolving door of people. “I walk in there and don’t know anyone. Then 2 months later, I walk in there and again don’t know anyone.”
I spent a few minutes asking him some questions, and we scheduled a Discovery meeting. I went into the office and interviewed several people in that department. Imagine my surprise when I found out that the Department Manager was using his blood connection with the owner to delegate work that was supposed to be his, to harass employees, and to threaten folks with losing their jobs. No one reported it, because he was kin to the owner.
This problem had gone on for years.
Since then, the owner fired his kin. It caused a rift in the family, but as the owner said “I’d rather have a rift in the family than a drain in my business.” I followed up with the owner later, and he said that walking into that department is a “breath of fresh air.”
Here are 5 things to do when you have a retention problem:
1) Determine if there is a trend in the employees who are leaving. Is it the same department? Same position? Same gender? Same age of employee?
2) Once you determine the similarities between the people who are leaving, go interview those that are staying.
3) Your employees who are staying are NOT going to tell you the whole truth. They are also NOT going to tell you how bad things are. Your job is to take the “whispers and the hints” that they tell you, and multiply it times 10. ANY hint of a bad employee means that it is WAY bigger than they are telling you.
4) Remember: people don’t leave jobs; they leave managers. If one manager is losing lots of people, then they are most likely the culprit.
5) If it isn’t the manager, check salaries. Check how many hours people are working. And finally, ask them this question: If you could wave a magic wand and fix this department, what is the one action you would take?
I am happy to say that my client is really pleased with how things are going now. He and his family are in therapy to solve the rift.
POWER THOUGHT: Retention can cause tension, but it doesn’t have to.
***If you are struggling with employee retention, reach out for a conversation. I’m happy to discuss what these issues are, and some of the potential solutions.
by Beth | Jun 17, 2025 | Uncategorized
Back in my restaurant days, a mentor of mine gave me a copy of Popes: A guide for Service Management. It was written by a man named H.H. Pope for his restaurant company, and it was a set of 21 rules for how to run a restaurant.
Learning Popes was a game changer. We taught it to every one of our managers. After everyone learned the guide, we were able to just shout out a number, and everyone knew what it meant. We were able to make changes quickly and could adapt on a dime to whatever the circumstances were.
At the end of the guidelines, there is a simple question that you ask yourself after every shift:
Are you proud of it?
According to H.H. Pope, “we must be proud of everything, which is going on, whether it is the cleaning, the preparation of the food, the service to the guests, or the efficiency of the operation. We insist that pride be the objective of everyone in the organization. Anyone who doesn’t wish to be dedicated to this objective cannot stay with our organization.”
I absolutely love this concept. When you are proud of your work, that translates to everyone in the organization. Pride in your work is a high standard, and yet, a very simple form of measurement.
If you aren’t proud of an area in your organization, that area is where you need to spend your time, effort and energy improving until you do feel proud of it. Don’t stop improving until your pride of that area returns.
POWER THOUGHT: Pride is something to be proud of.
*** I have searched high and low for anyone from H.H. Popes, Inc, so that I could thank them for this concept and give them proper credit for it. I have yet to find anyone. If any of you know who I can contact, please let me know.
by Beth | May 30, 2025 | Uncategorized
I met with a man a few weeks back who had seen me speak at a meeting. His name is Gary Bren, and he is the Managing Partner of Turner Technologies, out of Omaha, Nebraska. He wanted me to teach his directors how to run a hiring process, and he was very proud of his non-existent turnover rate. “In our industry, the turnover rate is 25%. The turnover rate at our company is 4%,” Gary said.
In full transparency, I was very skeptical and rolled my eyes inwardly, but I maintained my composure and asked, “What do you attribute to your low turnover rate?”
“It’s the way we value our people. “
Right. Again, with my inward eyeroll, I asked “Can you give me an example?”
“Oh, I can give you many! One time, a man who was 23, with a wife going into labor and a toddler at home, applied for a job with us. We made him an offer, and he accepted. He was going into the hospital with his wife for their child’s birth. He was taking the weekend to get the family settled, then he planned to go back to work Monday to finish out his 2 weeks. When he gave notice, they fired him on the spot.”
This employee called Turner and asked if he could start two weeks early. The IT Director went to Gary and told him the story. Gary said, “Tell the new employee that we will pay for his 2 weeks, but if he comes to the office before the 2 weeks is up, I will fire him. Tell him to take the time with his family, then he can start on his original start date with a full paycheck.”
I started crying, grateful to have been called out on my negative attitude.
Since then, Gary has told me numerous other stories about supporting employees through life transitions. Like Rich, who was given a paid leave of absence so that he could be with his dying mother in her last days. Or Mike, who was given a paid leave of absence to go to China to adopt a baby. Mike is now a part-owner of Turner. (Names have been changed to protect those amazing, lovely employees).
In a business world focused on squeezing out every dollar that they can and wondering why “employees just aren’t loyal anymore,” I say, “look at Gary. Adopt the Turner Way. See how much money you make when employees feel valued, supported and trusted.”
And to Gary: Thanks. I needed that. (Sniff!)
POWER THOUGHT: Want to see a turn around in retention? Turn to The Turner Way.
by Beth | May 22, 2025 | Uncategorized
At A-list Interviews, we love our clients. We value them, trust them and consider ourselves true partners in helping them hire the right people to run their organizations. More importantly, we believe that working in a job you love truly changes your life, and therefore the world.
Because of these valuable and valued relationships, we are asking you to refer your like-minded colleagues, friends and family if they are looking to grow and expand their team in 2025 with the help of our tried and true process. We are incredibly honored to help you, and we would extend this same excellent service and dedication to your valued network. Our goal is to continue building thriving and happy organizations with our hiring process.
Simply send a referral our way, and if this referral becomes a client, we will gladly reward you with a $250.00 gift card. Thank you again for being a partner of A-list Interviews, and we look forward to a successful remainder of the year.
by Beth | May 9, 2025 | Uncategorized
My daughter, Katy, graduated from college with a Nursing Degree in 2023. She applied for over 100 jobs that spring/summer in order to land her dream job at a hospital in the Dallas area. She loves her job as an award-winning post-partum nurse, and in July of this year, she will have been at her beloved hospital for 2 years.
Imagine her surprise when she received a rejection notice from a job she applied to in May of 2023.
As someone who rejects thousands of candidates per year, I have developed an art of how to professionally reject someone. Here are some tips:
1) Obviously, timeliness matters. Sending a rejection notice 2 years later is a bit tone-deaf. Don’t you agree? We send out rejection notices to candidates that we have interviewed within a week of their interview. They deserve answers. Waiting too long just tortures people needlessly.
2) Be kind. Rejection hurts.
3) Keep it short with very little detail. This is NOT the time to send correction advice on how they could have done better.
4) Use the same language for every candidate. Here is what we say: “Thank you so much for applying for the (blank) position at (Company name). We had many applicants with a great deal of depth of experience, and we are moving on with other candidates. We wish you the very best of luck in your future. Sincerely Yours…”
5) Remember that your duty is to hire the very best candidate possible for your role, so rejecting someone is not only the right thing to do for the organization, it is the right thing to do for the candidate.
I am happy to say that Katy is in the absolute right place and right role for her. Being rejected by this company benefitted everyone. I just wish they had been more timely.
POWER THOUGHT: Rejection is a necessary and important part of hiring. Do it professionally, thoughtfully, kindly and in a timely manner.
by Beth | Apr 25, 2025 | Uncategorized
A few weeks back on a Monday morning, my alarm screamed at me. Too early, truth be told. The weather was cold, the sky dark, and all I wanted to do was turn over and go back to sleep. I had a long day ahead of me, so I sighed loudly and rolled out of bed. I dragged myself to the gym, hauled my bag into the locker room, threw my head back and groaned. I did NOT want to be there!
I walked out to the bikes, frowning and eye rolling. There wasn’t even anyone to talk to! UGH! I climbed on the bike to the tune of ACDC. Then Eminem, followed by Tom Petty, Frankie Goes to Hollywood, and Cardi B, but no one could sing loudly enough to get me out of my funk. I kept pedaling, but I was winning no races, that’s fer sure.
Then, Spotify, in its infinite wisdom, shuffled my playlist, and next thing I know, I am bouncing off my seat to “Hey Macarena! Ai!”, a line dance that most of you don’t remember because it was in the 90’s. (YOU CAN LISTEN TO IT HERE) Most of the words are in Spanish, so everyone just hummed along until that legendary one liner. I had some of my best memories dancing to that song! Next thing you know, I am flying down imaginary canyons on my stationary bike, with fake wind in my hair, and dreaming of the sun in my face! I listened to only The Macarena on repeat for the next 4 straight workouts, and my motivation was through the roof!
When you are hit with the drudgery of interviewing, and you just can’t take it anymore, all of the sudden, in comes a one-hit wonder! The candidate that walks to the beat of a different drummer and sings their own tune, and they are perfect for the unicorn role that you need to fill. The two of you are a team. Your brains click. You finish each other’s sentences. You can’t be happier!
In all areas of life, we hit a wall of drudgery. We get stuck. We are uninspired. And all of the sudden, along comes a song, a poem, a person, and the next thing you know you are line-dancing again to a song in a language you can’t understand.
Life is just full of miracles, ain’t it?
POWER THOUGHT: Show up. Hold out. Focus. Then workout to the Macarena.
