A couple months ago, I bee-bopped into the gym on a beautiful Saturday morning. I started my stretches and got on the bike for a long ride. One of the boys that works the front desk came over to me and said “Do you drive a black Toyota Rav 4?” I said “Yes! Why are you asking?” He said “Well ma’am, it was broken into.”
Horrified, I ran out to the car, only to see no window on the driver’s side back seat, glass everywhere, and my wallet was gone.
I spent the rest of the day calling credit card companies and canceling cards, when suddenly it occurred to me: I was supposed to get on a plane to Canada first thing Monday morning. I couldn’t drive my car with a missing window, because it was snowing. I couldn’t order an Uber, because I didn’t have a credit card. I couldn’t ride the bus, because I had no way to get to the bus stop. In addition, I had my passport, and a little bit of cash, but what happens if I had an emergency in a foreign country?
It was time to rally the troops.
I called my client in Canada, and he graciously pre-paid all of my expenses. My neighbor kindly offered to drive me to the airport AND pick me up. A woman from the gym, who I barely know, wanted to provide me with cash and her credit card. I didn’t take her up on that offer, but what an amazing gesture! Several of my friends presented me with food, money, and experiences with their own stolen credit cards, hugs, and listening ears. People from the gym offered their support with kind words and sympathy for my situation. Even the police gave advice on what things to watch out for in the future.
While having your wallet stolen is a terrible experience that cost me a lot of money and time, I am overwhelmed with the love and support that I received. The outpouring of kindness that came to me gave me an extra bounce in my step, and the lesson that I learned was that even when things look awful, you can find something good. Focus on the miracles, not the lack.
POWER THOUGHT: You have the choice to look at a set-back as a chance to re-set.